will<\/em> pencil in a definition if none is forthcoming.<\/p>\nIf you ask my daughter what she\u2019s about, she\u2019ll tell you how old she is, what she\u2019s wearing, and the mood she\u2019s in: I\u2019m three, I\u2019m in a purple glittery t-shirt and I\u2019m happy-ish, but I want a snack. Done. Defined. This is her. But she\u2019s also a sister, a daughter, a preemie, a toddler, a perfectionist, a dramatist, a narcissist (aren\u2019t all three year olds?) and an occasional generous soul.<\/p>\n
There\u2019s an idea that\u2019s stuck to me recently, given the state of our country. It is the idea of secular liturgies. Secular liturgies are all the ways we define ourselves by the world\u2019s standards\u2026all the things we fill in on all those blanks on social media and government forms and neighborhood over-the-fence surveys.<\/p>\n
Here are a few for consideration:<\/p>\n
I am\u2026what I wear.<\/h1>\n
–That\u2019s an obvious one because the first thing people notice about us is our looks. Eyes might be the window to the soul, but they also take in all the rest too.<\/p>\n
I am\u2026what I own.<\/h1>\n
–Same as above, but the visual picture you create extends to your property: your house, car, vacations, all the amenities of life.<\/p>\n
I am\u2026what I do.<\/h1>\n
–Vocation is validation. We\u2019ve heard it all before. But I believe this extends to all we do, not just our jobs. It\u2019s easy to define yourself by what you accomplish whether that be in the workforce, in the home, or in the world at large. We all like to have items checked off the list.<\/p>\n
I am\u2026what people think I am.<\/h1>\n
–This one\u2019s about letting everyone else tell you what you need to be in each situation. It\u2019s also the most exhausting, because it makes you too malleable to other people\u2019s whims, a big ball of playdough that everyone else gets to mush into what makes them most comfortable.<\/p>\n
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There are many more I could add to this list but in the end, we are called first to be daughters and sons of Christ. And here\u2019s where it gets tricky. If I am a Christian, then I have to act like one in all the \u201cI am\u2019s\u201d. It has to shine through in how I dress, how I manage what I own, how I spend my time, and how authentic I am in each situation. My underlying Christianity needs to rise like cream and be the richest part of me, not just another \u201cI am.\u201d Moses wanted a definition of God to explain to his people. He wanted a noun with a few adjectives to go along with the burning bush. But God said \u201cI am who I am.\u201d Let that be enough. He has to be enough for me too.<\/p>\n
Antoine de-Saint-Exupery, the great French writer said,<\/p>\n
\u201cIf you want to build a ship, don\u2019t drum up people to collect wood and don\u2019t assign them tasks and work, but rather teacher them to long for the endless immensity that is the sea.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\nWhether I mean to or not, I am painting a picture with my life of what I long for. I want my picture to be a real Pollock of a painting splattered with the passion and energy of the Trinity: Father, Son, and Holy Ghost, hallelujah, stand up in church! I don’t want to ho-hum it. I want my picture to be my liturgy and my liturgy to be God in all caps, His \u201cI AM\u201d setting the frame for my own life. It\u2019s harder than it sounds, but also easier. I just have to long for Him more than I long for all the rest.<\/p>\n
Sunday Thoughts Link Up!<\/strong><\/h1>\nIt’s time for another Sunday Thoughts Link-Up! I know there are many out there with wisdom that could encourage all of us. As long as it’s Biblically-based, I’d love for you to join up and then read and comment on what others have shared. Please also leave a comment here. Think of this as a Sunday morning community group that comes to you. And grab the button if you like…<\/strong><\/h3>\n![\"The](\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mom-gene.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/Sunday-Thoughts-Button.jpeg?w=1170\" "\\"The")
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