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PROVERBS 16:1-3\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n

To humans belong the plans of the heart,<\/strong>
\n \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0but from the\u00a0Lord\u00a0comes the proper answer of the tongue.<\/strong><\/h2>\n

2\u00a0<\/sup>All a person\u2019s ways seem pure to them,<\/strong>
\n \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0but motives are weighed\u00a0by the\u00a0Lord.<\/strong><\/h2>\n

3\u00a0<\/sup>Commit to the\u00a0Lord\u00a0whatever you do,<\/strong>
\n \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0and he will establish your plans.<\/strong><\/h2>\n

The first time I ever sent a text message, I was twenty, studying abroad, and standing on a cobbled street in St. Andrews, Scotland. It was drizzling, per usual and I was meeting up with friends at a pub\/pizzeria (because everything is a pub\/something). The text was along the lines of: \u201cWhere are you? Are we meeting on High Street or that place near the English quad? Someone text me back.\u201d Emojis didn\u2019t exist and I did not, and still won\u2019t, use acronyms. Was I mad? Sad? Confused? Knowing me, standing in the rain in my wrinkled parka, probably all of the above. But you just can\u2019t tell with a text and the nuances were lost on me back then.<\/p>\n

They still are.<\/p>\n

We all want our words and our actions to be interpreted correctly.<\/h1>\n

We want the meaning and the message to come through clearly like the old rabbit ear televisions that faded into color like a scene opening on stage. If we talk about a flat tire on the side of the road, we want everyone to picture the rutty jutting edge of the highway in the middle of nowhere and the kids screaming and laughing and banging on the windshield while the jack slips loosely in the gravel.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the feeling of connection we seek above all else.<\/h1>\n

It\u2019s why marriage and any other relationship is so difficult. In every conversation there is a lapse between the words spoken and the words received and in that span anything could happen.<\/p>\n

When I set out to write Unbound<\/strong><\/em><\/a>, I wasn\u2019t speaking to anyone but myself. I was making sense of the life God had given me by weaving it in with the lives of those ancestral matriarchs in the Bible. It was comforting, sitting in the chair-and-a-half in my living room while the house slept, to see how things played out to God\u2019s perfection in hindsight.<\/p>\n

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And then, somehow, as I made peace with my own path, the words turned into a missive to all the other women out there wondering why and how they got where they are. That\u2019s when it became THE BOOK. And then of course, as in texts and every conversation we have online and real life, I felt the weight of the meaning. I wanted the message to be heard clearly.<\/p>\n

After weeks and months and deep breathing with my forehead to my knees and continual mottled prayers, I had to let it go. God knows my heart. He knows my message. It is up to Him to clear the soundwaves for it. It really is only \u201cfrom the\u00a0Lord\u201d this\u00a0\u201cproper answer of the tongue.\u201d<\/p>\n

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In \u201cThe Personal Heresy\u201d, C.S. Lewis speaks of this disconnect between artist and meaning. He writes,<\/p>\n

\u201cEvery work of art that lasts long in the world is continually taking on these new colours which the artist neither foresaw nor intended. We may, as scholars, detect and endeavor to exclude, them. We may, as critics, decide that such adventitious beauties are in a given case meretricious and trivial compared with those which the artist deliberately wrought. But all that is beside the purpose. Great or small, fortunate or unfortunate, they have been poetically enjoyed. And that is enough for my purpose.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

My prayer for all of us isn\u2019t that our intentions come across clearly, because those can be flawed in so many ways. It is that God\u2019s intentions do.<\/p>\n

May we enunciate the Gospel through our lives in the most eloquent of ways.<\/h1>\n

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Sunday Thoughts Link Up!<\/strong><\/h1>\n

It’s time for another Sunday Thoughts Link-Up! I know there are many out there with wisdom that could encourage all of us. As long as it’s faith-based, I’d love for you to join up and then read and comment on what others have shared. Please also leave a comment here. Think of this as a Sunday morning community group that comes to you. And grab the button if you like…<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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